What is the meaning about True Heart Feelings
Why does Fear dictates our ability to the amount of Love, or degree of Love we have for another person and creates this Experience of Pain when trust is involved.
If you speak of Unconditional Love, does that apply to your Self, you as a person, a Be-ing, or does this apply to the love you have for others?
If there is Unconditional Love with Self, there is always the part or aspect of Compassion, Forgiveness, Kindness and Understanding. Knowing you don’t have to Be flawless coming to Earth and willing by choosing your experiences to Bring Home closer to your Heart.
If there is Understanding and Compassion through Awareness this will create also the ability within yourself to be able to look at the steps you make in life with Compassion and Love. In there lies the ability for Forgiveness to your Self by releasing and clearing any old flaws – emotional wounds caused by Fear.
So when do you speak about Forgiveness? Are you looking at the flaws in others and is it easier to forgive them, for Father they didn’t know what they were doing, instead of giving yourself the same intention? Since all the choices and decisions you made through Life that were not Beneficial to you only came out of lack of Knowledge, lack of Awareness, or lack of Self-Love at the time.
Why is it that this is so much more painful and is placing trust in someone else and we are feeling betrayed and hurt when the trust seems to be broken? Or is it easier to look at the other who caused the pain and blame them for the wound they seem to inflict in you?
Why is it so difficult to make amends, when your trust in someone else is broken if it isn’t about You? Not intentionally to create a wound which was already there in the first place if your trust comes from fear.
Fear of being abandoned, fear of not being worthy, fear of not being loved if the true cause lies within lack of Unconditional Love for yourself. You are seeking healing, not within yourself, but outside and placing the responsibility in the hands of someone else.
Unconditional Love, Trust, Compassion, Kindness and Awareness starts within You, then the hurt caused by others isn’t about You any more.
The True Heart Feeling enables you to Love the other one unconditionally. Then you will find Forgiveness and Compassion, because then you will Be able to see the Truth within the situation. Then you can say, it isn’t about Me.
High Self @RheaDopmeijer (c)
Heartfelt Messages september 2013