True Heart Feelings Are Real – by Rhea Dopmeijer

What is the meaning about True Heart Feelings

Why does Fear dictates our ability to the amount of Love, or degree of Love we have for another person and creates this Experience of Pain when trust is involved.

If you speak of Unconditional Love, does that apply to your Self, you as a person, a Be-ing, or does this apply to the love you have for others?

If there is Unconditional Love with Self, there is always the part or aspect of Compassion, Forgiveness, Kindness and Understanding. Knowing you don’t have to Be flawless coming to Earth and willing by choosing your experiences to Bring Home closer to your Heart.

If there is Understanding and Compassion through Awareness this will create also the ability within yourself to be able to look at the steps you make in life with Compassion and Love. In there lies the ability for Forgiveness to your Self by releasing and clearing any old flaws – emotional wounds caused by Fear.

So when do you speak about Forgiveness? Are you looking at the flaws in others and is it easier to forgive them, for Father they didn’t know what they were doing, instead of giving yourself the same intention? Since all the choices and decisions you made through Life that were not Beneficial to you only came out of lack of Knowledge, lack of Awareness, or lack of Self-Love at the time.

Why is it that this is so much more painful and is placing trust in someone else and we are feeling betrayed and hurt when the trust seems to be broken? Or is it easier to look at the other who caused the pain and blame them for the wound they seem to inflict in you?

Why is it so difficult to make amends, when your trust in someone else is broken if it isn’t about You? Not intentionally to create a wound which was already there in the first place if your trust comes from fear.

Fear of being abandoned, fear of not being worthy, fear of not being loved if the true cause lies within lack of Unconditional Love for yourself. You are seeking healing, not within yourself, but outside and placing the responsibility in the hands of someone else.

Unconditional Love, Trust, Compassion, Kindness and Awareness starts within You, then the hurt caused by others isn’t about You any more.

The True Heart Feeling enables you to Love the other one unconditionally. Then you will find Forgiveness and Compassion, because then you will Be able to see the Truth within the situation. Then you can say, it isn’t about Me.

High Self @RheaDopmeijer (c)
Heartfelt Messages september 2013

About author

This article was written by Rhea Dopmeijer

Spiritual advisor, Kundalini Reiki Master, Coach and Counselor, Energetic Therapist, Empath, Social Worker, Shaumbra I have been working as a social worker in shelters for battered women, nursing homes, psychiatry and hospital for almost 20 years. I am a Social Worker specialized in Women’s therapy. This included the area of sexual, environmental, cultural as well religious trauma. I LOVE sharing wisdom, insights, and tools that are shared here to illuminate esoteric knowledge in simple and in down-to-earth terms that quickly make Mystical Masters out of anyone. My unique style I created a Heartfelt platform which is focusing on healing Self and has been created to inspire to change your life. It offers a place for you to grow your spirit . I can tune in and offer the necessary tools that are helpful in the journey we call live in order to grow and heal to become the best you can be. “I belong to no religion. My religion is love. Every heart is my temple” - Rumi I have been working with clients in the several different settings in my work over the years. I work most of all individual through counselling and chats. The main theme in working with groups are about the different roles we learned to play growing up. Healing of the Inner Child is one of the most important areas I am working on with the client. You can follow me on my Blog What is Love (link is external) for inspirational messages. Twitter (link is external)


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