Whose Responsibility is it? – by Sara Jane

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Whose Responsibility is it?
Your Life, Your Health, Your Success?
The Universe Responds to the Energies You put out.


What were you thinking as you read the title and then sub-titles of this article?

Where did your thoughts take you?

Who do you think is responsible for your life, health & success?

What energies about yourself are you putting out into the Universe?

You are the one responsible for it ALL

 Everything you do, think and say is felt by the Universe and the Universe responds accordingly.

On Thoughtful Nuggets & Pearls, part of Gift of Healing TV, I shared a short inspirational video “Relationship with Yourself”, you can watch it here: https://youtu.be/hn4n47phGWU

So, let’s start there, the more love, respect, confidence in yourself that you have, the more you wil

l attract that into your life, the better people will treat you.

And if people do disrespect you, it is up to you to love yourself enough to let them know it is Not OK.

I used to be so insecure, I didn’t know that it was OK to love myself and to consider what I would choose; I was always trying to please others, what we call “a people pleaser”. Learning to Love Myself has been so freeing, so liberating. If I can do it, everyone can.

Who is responsible for your health – you are, no one else.

You are responsible for the food and drink you put in your mouth, they are your choice. You are also responsible for how much exercise you do, how much time you spend getting fresh air and sunshine.

Your health improves when you think about and act on those things you are in control of.

I get it, I am a chocoholic, I admit I love chocolate and I have to accept I am an addict. Recently I had the thought, “how much do I love myself, that I keep putting this poison into my body?”, that sort of stopped me in my tracks and at the time of writing this, I haven’t had any chocolate or anything with sugar in for 9 weeks (and I feel so much better for it).

Who is responsible for your success, in all areas of your life?

You are.

What are you doing to help yourself?

How much do you think it is up to others to do it for you?

How much energy do you put into what you are doing?

How much do you support others to support themselves?

That’s right, you have to help yourself, allow others to support you to help yourself but don’t expect them to do it all for you.

The Universe loves those you share not only for themselves but for others.

“The More we Share, the More we Care, the More Love there is in the World”

 This is a saying that was bought to me by Grandmother Turtle in one of her messages and it is so true.

When we not only share for ourselves (this is essential) but also share for others, as well as supporting them we support ourselves too.

I learnt a long time ago, well, within the last 20 years, that I cannot heal anyone but me, I cannot make anyone a success, I can only support them to do that for themselves.

,We are all responsible for everything in our own lives and by working together we can make it happen for ourselves and support others in the process.

This is your life, your choices and you can change it if you don’t like it but you are the only one who can do that.

As I have sat here writing this, I get a real sense that I have channeled this article, I just had to put the personal bits in. I don’t know who but I can guess why because of a conversation yesterday and a few emails I have received recently.

The Universe loves us and only wishes the best for us; however it can only bring to us what we put out there.

This is a reminder to us all and that includes me.

You can listen to an audio version of this article, look further down.

Love, Peace & Light


Copyright © Sara Jane 2018

About author

This article was written by Sara Jane

Who is Sara Jane? Sara is 57 years old and had a varied background before finding Complementary Therapies in 2002. She currrently lives and works from her home in Bournemouth, UK. She has worked in retail to Area Manager Level, was a consumer services manager for 2 toy manufacturers, ran public houses with her first husband and worked in insurance. She is now a Reiki & Sound Energy Master Practitioner & Teacher and practitioner of Metamorphic Technique, Indian Head Massage, Thai Foot Massage & Ear Candling, as well as running self-development and other workshops, Reiki and Sound Shares. Sara is an author, international speaker and the founder of Gift of Healing TV, as well as being the voice for many friends in the Mythical Realm including the Dragons that guard over the Earth's Crystals. She also loves the outdoors and in 2001 was a trainee handler at The UK Wolk Conservation Trust, where she had many wonderful interactions with the wolves​.


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